I believe I've already said quite a bit about myself. Maybe I jumped the gun a bit :) Basically, I'm a good person, I chose to have children when I did because I really thought that I had carefully chosen a good, decent, family loving man that would never betray his child. But regardless of who or how they turned out to be, I am so Thankful. I was blessed twice. I could not have asked for more perfect children, and I take pride in being their Mother. Obviously, I am not responsible for their Fathers bad decisions, but I am responsible for making sure that my girls know theirs Fathers love them, and that they were both created out of love. I feel that I am a head up on most single females because I don't believe that I am a victim and refuse to use that as an excuse for my situation.
I choose to believe that we will rise from this situation, with our heads held high. I am proud of the fact that I earn an honest living, I do not try and "use" the system, I don't lie, cheat or steal, and I feel that just because I am asking for the help of others, that does not make me less of a person, a woman or a Mother.
